La Dispute - Such Small Hands
[ID: A version of the narkissigender flag. It has seven stripes: light yellow-green, pale yellow, yellow-orange, orange, yellow-orange, pale yellow, and light yellow-green. End ID]
This gender wasn't coined by me but I wasn't able to find the original post
Narkissigender or Narkissisgender:
An egotistical gender, viewing itself in a high position and wanting and/or needing praise. Should only be used by those who have narcissistic personality disorder. Can be combined with relevant genders (boy, girl, xirl, boi, nonbinary, enby, nb, etc)
Flag is a redesign by me.

Alexithymia: An experience in which a person is consistently unable to put words to their feelings, resulting in difficulty in every day activities. These people may be unaware of the physical bodily reactions emotions have, or just simply be unable to explain why they are currently upset. Another common factor of people with this condition is that they often come off as indecisive, since they can’t always pinpoint their feelings. Alexithymiacs also struggle not just in describing emotions, but also feeling and expressing. Sometimes having crying spells without understanding they were sad, or feeling “numb” or “detached” when the emotion they’re feeling is simply hard to grasp. It’s not entirely known what causes Alexithymia, but it seems to have a correlation to abusive childhood households, if a child felt emotional expression was unsafe, they would “turn it off” and bottle to avoid consequences. This lead to them being unable to develop emotional skills for later in life, resulting in them not understanding the emotions they were feeling all along. When these people go to therapy, they’re often described as “Patients with nothing to tell”.
-Fy

NPD: an individual with narcissistic personality disorder exhibits extreme self-importance, inability to empathize with others and heightened sensitivity to criticism. Self-involvement and lack of empathy characterize this personality disorder.
Design choice: the artist chose pastel pinks and yellows as they are very eye-catching colors that feel like very “outgoing” colors. In line with the outgoing and self assured face that people with NPD project, the pink is associated with confidence and the yellow with insecurity and anxiety. The purple is for royal purple, in the center, to represent the focus on self.
Anonymous asked:
NPD (or any other cluster-b) Culture is having something bad happen to you, and wishing it was worse/would happen again so people will feel bad and give you attention. (Even when you know that it’s not a healthy thing to wish for)
cluster-b-culture-is answered:
me: ok how am i feeling. i'm going to look into my brain and figure out how i'm fe--
alexithymia brain: static
me: what?
alexithymia brain: you feel the way radio static sounds
me: well that's extremely fucking unhelpful
alexithymia brain: it's the best i can give you